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Welcome to the club. It is a club I wish I was not invited to, a club I wish YOU were not invited to. R.A.D. Systems, my wife, and I are working to destroy the membership drive of this club. This web site is one part of my contribution to this effort.

You are NOT to blame for the abuse. You are NOT responsible for the assault. It doesn’t matter how you were dressed. It doesn’t matter what you did. It doesn’t matter where you went or when you went. NOBODY has the right to hurt you or make you give them your body.  You did something right because you survived to tell and to heal. 

You can do noting about your past, it is gone.  You cannot change the present, it is already here.  You do have the power to change your future!   You can choose to let the experience control you or you can choose to reject this unwanted influence in your life. You can choose to live in fear or you can be free of the fear. You can let the abuse continue to affect you long after the abuser is gone or even dead. You can let them destroy your self-worth or you can re-establish your self-worth!